Thank you all for your insights and support, I will respond later, just wanted to post an email that H just sent in response.
There is no hate in my email, but yes, there is anger. I did start the email by acknowledging that I don’t know why you decided not to go. I can only guess what’s going on, since you decided not to communicate with me, I am in the dark. Am I wrong in my thinking that you don’t want D to stay alone; and you don’t trust me not come in the house? You told me yourself about these reasons, I didn’t just make them up. You treat me like the enemy... I wish it wasn’t so... But I don’t want to be your enemy... I know I hurt you. I don’t even want to say I know how much, because you would immediately say I have no idea... I am sorry for the pain I caused you...
Now what....I think that I have to reply something...
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO