Thank you all for your insights and support, I will respond later, just wanted to post an email that H just sent in response.

There is no hate in my email, but yes, there is anger.
I did start the email by acknowledging that I don’t know why you decided not to go. I can only guess what’s going on, since you decided not to communicate with me, I am in the dark.
Am I wrong in my thinking that you don’t want D to stay alone; and you don’t trust me not come in the house? You told me yourself about these reasons, I didn’t just make them up.
You treat me like the enemy... I wish it wasn’t so... But I don’t want to be your enemy...
I know I hurt you. I don’t even want to say I know how much, because you would immediately say I have no idea... I am sorry for the pain I caused you...


Now what....I think that I have to reply something...


M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO