Hi Tal, First, I did not get the email--I will email you just so you have the right email address--just in case. Second, sounds like you and Wolfie continue to make great progress--I'm so happy for you!!
Yes, perhaps a 1 on 1 with JJ may be in order to see my plan of action---I did see H today, he came over to get a few things while OW was at his apt (she goes home tomorrow)...seems she does not have a problem with H seeing his W--very secure in what she has. I asked him point blank if he loved her and that answer was "yes"...he doesn't know what their future holds--the next few months will dictate--she may move here next June, but sounds like that will only happen if they are still hot and heavy and he'll agree to get an apt with her. Their week together at the end of the year is in New York City--to see museums/broadway shows etc (things he never expressed an interest in).....but he is pretty adament about wanting the D and seems it is only financial reasons for not acting on it...he seems to have it all planned out in his head about the equity in the house and how I'll have to buy him out to keep it and that will payoff his debts...in fact he just about said that he was going to enjoy NYC off his equity--now would be a good time for the housing market to take a dive!!!!! so I'm dilemna'd--mediation is the cheapest way for us to proceed while still trying to maintain friendship--he says we should wait until after the holidays and I almost think--[censored] I should say screw mediation and have him "served" on Christmas Eve--when he can't do anything about it for 2 weeks since he'll be with whore! Well, here I go rambling on your thread!!! Sorry--will pick it up on mine!!! Take Care and I'll look forward to your email!
