he was back, i think

[newmama]

Be aware that your H could also be trying to soften you so that you will ease up with what you are requesting in the D!

and I think that it will take a very long time to get over our spouses; especially when we have a child with them. We married them, we created a permanent bond....if you just accept that and then do your best to ignore it then it could help! That is what I am trying to do! Like "I acknowledge that I am feeling attracted and have loving feelings. But he is not treating me well. I do not want this alien man. I must not let him in."