Divorce in 1 month Help with exposing please need

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Ok allen,

June/2/09 My sister commited suaside with a pistol and my wife found her in her home. My sister and wife were good freinds.

We were at a race event in june15/09 noticed WAW hanging out with O/M said something about it to them.

They told me they were talking about my sisters death, and how his dad was dying from cancer.

I told them that i did't like this because my wife and i still havent started talking about sis death. I shut down i know this now i was depressed.

all i got from her MIL and FIL they are just freinds and talking. I said maybey im just over reacting thy have known each other before we got married and did come to our wedding.

July 09 Noticed wife was hiding phone erasing all call logs being very quiet and distant. She started going to her moms a hundred miles away ever week for four to five days.

On the June 26 wife went down to help with advent i brought RV down wife didnt come down till saturday dayed she was helping MIL
cook and watch baby.Friday night called mother MIL to talk to wife she said she was asleep. Next day wife came and O/m showed up after i went to sleep. I awoke yp at 2 am no wife so i called her cell phone and it rang out on picknick table.
So i called O/M cell and 3 minutes later Waw calls me and says were talking and so i went and said what the hell is going on just talking . other man runs of about crying. Me and wife get into argument MIL and FIL come out tell me that im over reacting. Wife tells me
I love you butt im not in love with you any more bs. That i think we made a mistake that i would be happer being a single mom bs.I woke up the next morning and Other man had returned. So i let it be didnt want to cause a seen. Sunday i had to leave to go back home for work as i was leaving wife said she would be home on tuesday, she wanted to help tare down the equipment.

As im leaving isee O/M driving down to addvent.She never came home she said she need time to think if she still wanted to be married.



When my WAW decided to leave she stayed at her moms.

On our annavircery i drove down their and found out my son was attacked buy mother inlaws german shepard.

He was staying with wifes grand mother and wife was house sitting brothers house wy he was on honneymoon.

She was staying with otherman at house she said she felt unsafe being their buy herself. And we are just freind BS.

She had the look of shame on her face she told me about son.
She said she didnt want to tell me because she was affraid of what i would do to the dog.

This happened a week before.

Then she started to tell me that real dad showed up and asked her what was going on are you having an affair because he lives next door to brother inlaw and seen O/M jeep in drive way every night. He said she said no.

Then she prceded to tell me that he is like my brother can you belive that that would be sick she said like incest.

We went and picked up son and took him out for pizza.

She seamed very distant then she told me that she controlls when i see my son and if i didnt like it oh well. So i went and filed separation papers and got temparary protecive custody order wy they could find get rid of dog. They decided to go stay with grandmother.

We came up with an agreement that i would get him every other week end for for days and that she would have to call me anything happend to son.

Then on the thirty day of her replying to my separation papers her att filed divorce.

Then i re orderd phone records from phone company because the old ones dissapperd and found out that she was calling him after i left for work middle of day and before i got home from work and the text messages went from 400 to over 1600. And i noticed no phone calls to O/M when she went to MIL.

I feel like the biggest boob in the world.

She has told everyone that they didnt start dating till after i filed separtion, I think she baited me into filing she said i didnt have the balls to do it. Thats my stich.

If my spelling is bad PDT im sorry, im just here like every one else trying to turn things around.

And i would like to be able to find a way to tell every one that it started way before the seperation and how to word it and expose this more.

M 37
W 31
s2
M 2 1/2