Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
Originally Posted By: Lotus
Yes, you need to let her stew in this mess of hers. Because unless she sees that she has caused all her problems, she will repeat the behavior over and over. You did not marry her until someone better comes along. And that is the way she is treating you. She's not even waiting for someone better to come along, she is actively hunting for a new husband!

I know you think she is wonderful. And that is good, because you love her. i am not saying this to be critical of your wife. I'm saying it because it is true. Men are not anxious to find a wife who is sick all the time and needs a nursemaid. She may find out quickly that you are the best husband she can get at the shopping mall of husbands. So don't sell yourself too cheaply. Make her work to get back what she has been so happy to throw away.


(((STANDING OVATION!)))

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Puppy



Totally agree! smile


M55
H55
my D31
H D30 1st met her when she was 25
M 22yrs...2nd for me, 1st for H
OW 2005 mother of H daughter, came back to introduce D
1bomb 6/05
2bomb 7/08
3bomb 2/10 moved up north