Thanks Puppy! I must admit, I have stunned myself with just how maturely I've handled this so far. I'm devastated and heartbroken, but I've kept true to the changes I've made in myself, and not let myself go over to the "Dark Side of the Force". I wasn't confrontational, didn't explode with anger, haven't blamed anyone and I haven't acted out of malice or revenge. I basically said I know what's going on, it's unacceptable and damaging to my family and marriage, and it must stop.