You might want to read up on the steps of grieving.

In particular the loss of a relationship tends to involve and be healed by a grieving process. It sounds like from this post that you are grieving and getting close to acceptance.

There are last minute options to save a marriage discussed on other parts of this MWD website and she does have some books and advice on that topic that you may wish to investigate or you may just wish to move on.

In either event, bless you and good luck to you.

Work on GAL, as it will help. Exercise is a great way to fight depression,anger and a host of problems. What has happened is not your fault so don't blame yourself or punish yourself.

Again Good luck to you.


Last edited by Young at Heart; 05/21/10 03:16 PM.
>43 years of marriage--My wife and I are now closer than we have been in decades. I believe that my SSM is over.