Pam, I just sent you an email. I do read your thread. Very frustrating sitch you have there. It's so very obvious that your H still loves you and isn't ready to let go. He must be a master at the fine art of denial. I'd ask JJ about this directly, but I wonder if it isn't time for a last resort technique for you to wake up your dreamer of an H.
I don't think Wolfie thought he'd really lose me, but when I said I was at the end of my rope and wanted to do the legal route, it did freak him out because I was quite sincere. It's a touchy thing and can easily backfire, but there seems to be quite a few situations where people on the bb have had WAS want to return just as the LBS was giving up and moving on.
