Its funny you should mention that, Snodderly. As part of my GAL, I had already started to redecorate the house. Bought new window shades, a room divider, and just yesterday finished wallpapering a bathroom. He was very interested in these changes, praised me for my taste, wanted to make sure I was 'doing it right' when replacing the baseboards and light switch. He acknowledged that these were 'my projects' but still felt he had to oversee. Why the interest if he is planning on moving and leaving? Could it still be confusion about what he wants?
Today, coming up on another weekend where we don't work, he is packing boxes into his car to take them to OW house. Still has not mentioned anything to his parents, who live just down the road. I have the feeling he wants to be all set to move and then on his way out of town say "by the way folks, I'm leaving my wife for my mistress" but then will be gone, as we (the family) have to deal with the rumors and resulting talk in our small town. Guess there is no way for him to feel the force of their displeasure unless I broach the topic, but he would definitely see that as a betrayal of trust.
Me - 38 Husband - 40 MLC! Together 12 years Married 11 years Still the love of my life Forever only lasted 10 years before his MLC and affair
