I know you are extremely upset. You need to gain your composure. You know now the mind set of your H.
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, from our conversation on Saturday I realized certain things will never happen for me if I do not start in this direction
He is saying he needs to do this for him.
I think you need to agree with H. Tell him you think it is a great idea to have time apart from each other so you could both work on yourselves.
Hang in there and keep posting
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