Yeah, she's yanking your chain because she knows how.
No offense (and please don't use this to get angry because it is unproductive), but she did this, and all the blaming you and pushing your buttons (she knows them well) to make you feel sorry for her is not helping you or her.
You can't help her with her mess. You need to find a way to detach for your own good.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-