forrest, i can't save this. i don't know if it's fog. i want to know if anybody else out there experienced the same thing and was able to turn things around.
at this point, he's making himself look very unattractive. it's really sad. everyone is asking me why i want to go back to someone like this. this is why i am hesitant to "do the work". i don't know if this is fog. or is this the new h that is permanent and here to stay. is there enough work that i can do to really make him see? or is money really that important? more important than a human being? more important than unconditional love, companionship, and support?
gifts that were given to me, are considered to be joint? yet gifts given to him, are his and excluded. let's not forget - who asked for this. also, why would his lawyer advise against putting silly things like a handbag and the engagement ring/jewellery on the financial statement?
i know you know that i tend to dig. but i didn't provoke this. my financial statement is honest - that's what my lawyer requested. his financial statement is padded.
i can't take a cab to my parents place. it's be one heck of an expensive cab ride - they live 5 hrs away.
