Thanks dd, PG.

W is talking D, showing me the houses she is looking to buy, determing property division, all interspersed with a heavy dose of 'woe is me'. Her life is over, heart is broken, going to be alone forever. It is as if I am dumping her, instead of the other way around.

It really is tearing me apart.

3 weeks on NC will be good. No idea what I will find upon my return.


H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012