His MLC and I don't know what to do anymore

[peacetoday]

SC
I read your last couple of posts
Yes it is so difficult and we are very vunerable in the beginning
there are many twists and we are constantly given information from our WAS that we usually dont want to see, hear or deal with
Taking care of ourselves gives us time to figure it out and it takes a while to heal and start taking new directions
first with our dealing of the WAS, our attempt to Stand,
then for some of us our decision to move forward
it takes time

sorry about the family get together--yes some things will be very painful to deal with and adjust to on this journey
the pain is for a moment and usually leads to some kind of change in us for the better---more compassion or greater wisdom so embrace the moment
if you have faith--stick close to that
let things happen ..we have no control


so go easy on you
in the end, what ive seen is the LBS usuallybecomes stronger than ever
happy and changed for the good whether WAS returns or not- the odds of you becoming ok thru it all are very high
shoot for that and if he returns its a plus
if not you are ok still
peace