Journaling: H is off to Montreal this weekend with his karate friends. I know in my heart that OW is going with him. I asked him what he was doing and he said in an angry tone "party, party, party." (This was in the context of a conversation where we were just making small talk together, so I didn't see it as me prying.) I just said "sounds like fun."
I am actually looking forward to doing some fun things this weekend. One is changing the bathroom colors. I think that every time H goes out on a weekend all through the summer, he will come home to one major improvement in the house. I don't know why but it just feels like a fun thing to do...