MLC - standing by my man

[Mila]

I'm just shocked....I can't believe the e-mail I just received from WH. So much anger and hate, he has never talked to me like this before in our 36 years together. I'm pretty upset. This is his reaction to me not going away for the weekend. The decision not to go was actually made because my friends couldn't get a ticket for me for the event we were supposed to go to.


I didn’t hear from you regarding the weekend, so I texted D to find out if she knew. She texted me that you are not going.
I don’t know what the decision is based on, but if it is based on your belief that D can’t be trusted to stay home alone at this age, it’s a wrong.
You want her to take more responsibility for herself, but you don’t show her enough trust and respect! I am sorry.
If you think you can’t trust me to go and check on her Saturday evening, because you think I WOULD INVATE YOUR PRIVACY, SINCE YOU DON’T TRUST ME EVEN A LITTLE BIT!!! - then it’s going to be very hard to continue working together.
I understand your anger towards me, but I am the same man as I have been over the years we have been together, and I don’t understand the exaggerated extend of the distrust you feel towards me!
Especially now, after what I did last year, I wouldn’t lie. The only way I can go on in my life, for myself, not for others, is to make sure I live and act openly and truthfully. I wish you could believe me, it would be easier for you, but if you don’t, it’s your loss, I know who I am and how I live my life.
I feel very bad for D!! She thought (and I did too) that you would go and she was so looking forward being home alone. She wanted to show you that it would be OK! You took that chance away from her.

This is what I replied:

Before you pour out all this hate at me you should have asked why I’m not going. Since when did I become the enemy?


I have no words...