Hey NM, Thanks for the reminder.. I get so impatient. It's weird, when it comes to other people's problems, I have the patience of Job, but with my own... ugh.. one of the things I need to do a 180 on. _______
OK.. So, now why I am posting so late. I am posting so I don't do something stupid and tell H what I really think about OW calling and talking to him at 12:30 am when she knows we're still in the same house and DD sleeps right next to us. That would be WAY too confrontational and I'm trying to do a 180 on that. ARGHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!! ok.. feel better now.
Seriously, though, I really wish I had a way to make OW realize how much her actions are impacting my family, and yet at the same time, I think she knows and doesn't care because she wants my H. I know I can't blame this whole situation on her as my H made decisions himself. The thing that makes me so angry is that SHE gave him the "benefit" of her experience getting divorced with kids, and is now capitalizing on his decision that it would be a "better life for everybody" (eventually) if we got divorced. I want to tell her to get the *BLEEP* away from my H and go find somebody not already married to latch onto.
Done ranting. I think I'm calm enough to go back to bed soon. And starting tomorrow, I won't be here if she calls in the middle of the night and he'll have to be the one to deal with DD if she isn't asleep because of it.
Me 32, H 34, DD 3 M 6, T 8 Bomb 03/10 OW Bomb 6/5/10 Separate & NC 6/28/10 My 2nd EA Thread
