I am doing my best to detach but I am having difficulty wrapping my head around all this. My W fell in love with another male and is now heart broken over him. She does not admit these feelings.

I want to confront her about all my findings but feel like it would only make things worse.

I don't want to save her from her own mess, I actually want her to suffer in a sense. She has not been honest and continues not to be.

My W became attached to another male because I failed to treat her like a husband should. OM hopefully leaves my W alone. During this time I detach from my W and let her figure out the mess she created, my W is not getting the emotional support she feels she needs and ends up attching to yet anpther male?

M: 27, W: 25
Together since: 01/31/00
M: 10/4/09 (8 Months)
ILBNILWY: 01/24/10
EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted).
Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10
Retrouvaille: 09/10/10