I don't think it would hurt to talk about parenting but since you are sooo close to giving birth, it might make more of an impact to wait until your H holds your D and sees her in the flesh...after about 3 days post birth of seeing S, my WH said he couldn't bear to not be with S every day.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004