screwing up big time and need help

[newmama]

Elvencat, it has been a week and you are feeling like you are in a holding pattern? Remind yourself this takes months, not weeks.

Also expect that your H is going to test you and he will see what he can "get away with." I was so proud of you not reacting when he said he was going to OW's house!!!

After all, your ACTIONS are speaking to him...you are moving into a different house, you are busy GALing, you are moving on! If he doesn't wake up, he will lose you! I bet he is still thinking you will be there and won't leave him even though he said he wants to leave you! So just hang in there and let time elapse while your ACTIONS prove you are a woman of your word.

Keep up the momentum! I am inspired by you! Keep the faith!