And then another call this evening. Maybe the "ground rules" call. No unecessary calls except to discuss pertinent financial matters or family issues. Being friendly, but not expecting to be friends per se. The way it should have been when she first filed. These are from me.

She then tells me she really was not pursuing the D until now. WTH? Nice communication there all along. Don't tell your spouse what you really want out of them, just let it be a guessing game.

Games. It'll be nice to find someone that does not play them. Just some nice honesty.