HotRomeo, I know that you are very worried about your D in all of this. My feeling is that there will be a rough ride ahead with your W and you will have to be strong as she gets angry at you. But in the long run you and your W will sort out coparenting. There will be some adversarial stuff in the legalities because you and your W have different interests here. But in the long run your common interest - your D - WILL be taken care of by both of you. In the short term, be strong and assert yourself. You'll have all sorts of negotiating to do from here on in...and for years. Being strong and firm is a great 180 for you and will put you in a much better position for future negotiations. (((hugs)))
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me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
