My wife made about 8 times less than me. She was trying to get spousal support even though she was living with her sugar daddy in a 10,000 sq ft single level home (I call it the compound now). I ended up buying her out of spousal support to the tune of $40,000. I was able to refinance my house so as to pay that and the division of assets off.

Let your L deal with your wife indirectly.

I wish you luck on the hearing on Monday.