Just found out she already filed

[Gardener]

Romeo,

So much for me believing she was a nice person underneath. Or that at least she'd do this amicably for DD's sake. This is the first time I've seen this side of her. I didn't know she could be so venomous and mean.

Amazing, isn't it? Keep spew coat ready; they'll be more.
Do not write a note, let alone an apologetic one.
Go dark. Go L-to-L. Don't discuss at all.

This does suck big time that your once loving wife has turned into something that more resembles an evil alien from outer space.

Big time, is right.
And, of course, the reason we're all here in the first place.

Hang in there Romeo. Use the 48-Hour Rule and/or run things by here before acting on impulse.