And eventually, when you are making out with a new nice lady in the parking lot of the grocery store near your home, you wont even be thinking of your X!
oh, there's gotta be a story here....
I think there is always a story with Kerry! Just makes life more interesting you know?
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
I posted that last night shortly after coming home from date night. My head was in the clouds a bit. My date did mention that other customers may yell out "get a room!".
Yes. Thursday I was at a singles thing with a group from church and had an attractive 35-year-old college guidance counselor on my left and a 31-year-old attractive banking employee on my right.
I went back and forth in the conversation, trying to give both equal treatment, and I didn't think about STBXW at all.
Moving forward is always better than looking backward. It just varies in how long it takes to get the ship going.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
Thursday I was at a singles thing with a group from church and had an attractive 35-year-old college guidance counselor on my left and a 31-year-old attractive banking employee on my right.
I have an image in my mind of you playing the role of Mills Lane as referee in a cat fight over you.
And eventually, when you are making out with a new nice lady in the parking lot of the grocery store near your home, you wont even be thinking of your X!
Very well - and enticingly - put!
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
This evening I was finishing up some gardening out front when X (and surgically attached dog) stopped by to sign renter's agreement which she couldn't wait around for Tuesday.
I reminded her that I'd said I'd confirm tonight with her - which I didn't - renter's not home tonight. He and I will sign and I'll mail it to her, I decided. "Okay."
She asked if she could go out back and cut flowers. "Go right ahead." I finished up, went in house through the front, took a shower, didn't see her again. Was going to use the word "ignore" in this post, but "ignore" denotes intent, a decision. For me, now, whenever I see her it's simply a sense of, "Yeah...so?"
Later, while driving, I thought that one week ago today was the one year "anniversary" of when she asked for D. The fact that that date and event didn't register for over a week, must say something about where I'm at now.
Off tomorrow morning for a "guys" weekend that I organized with eight of my ol' high school crowd. A couple I still see often. The other six? It's been between 5 and 25 years!
See ya Sunday.
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Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
