Yes, KAW it was VERY tongue-in-cheek. Just my warped sense of humor.
Of course it has to be his idea, and I won't be upset if it doesn't happen. The letter-writing actually became a life-line for us for the first few months after the bomb. Verbal communication led to some very volitile moments. Writing things down helped slow down the thought-process, and I think we did a lot of negotiating a reconciliation that way.
