thanks jact ... am feeling stronger than ever before..i think drawing boundaries after feeling I'd tried all else in the lead up to Birth Day, has enabled me to detach from him a bit and look forward to the next phase of life - caring for this little being I'm soon to meet!
He wants to come in and meet her straight after the birth ( I figure a couple of hours will do? never having had a baby, I can't imagine delivering her and then letting him straight in!)..I'll do what is practical for me and the baby. I wonder if he thinks he is going to have an 'epiphany' and want to suddenly hang around and be a parent?
