So I have a WAW, mostly my fault , but she has acknowleded her own contributions and said to me and a relative and a close friend that she is NOT ready to throw in the towel on our 14 year old relationship just yet , but she needs her space to deal with her emotions over my treatment of her ( which really WAS my fault)
She's gotten her own place through a friend at work. I have the kids with me for now , so our daughter can finish her Kindergarten year in the same school. Once the school year ends, the kids will be living with her , as due to a bankruptcy I was forced to file just to keep things going this long, I will have no choice but to leave the house at the end of June or early July ( rental).
I've been reading DR and am committed to following what to do as far as not pursuing , validating her feelings etc, even though its the hardest thing I've ever had to do when all I want is my family back and happy. My wife has made it clear that she's so upset and heartbroken with how things have been that she doesnt even want to come around me, because up until I read DR every conversation would turn to me making the BIG mistakes , letter writing , imploring , begging , crying , " I've changed for good " etc.
I made it clear to her a few days ago that I could accept not talking about any R stuff , if she was willing to be around more
