Ah yes, follow through. My H is not great on that either even after I tell him what I would like him to do. If it's not something he'd normally do then it usually does not happen. I'm not sure why that is because if he told me he wanted me to do XYZ, I would make every effort to do so. It would be in my mind. He seems to let it go in one ear and out the other most times. Any suggestions how to tell him what I need that would make him actually want to do it?? Heck, even remember it? Tal, you seem to be coming along in this area. It's great that he is trying to met your needs! Rachael