So when I am finally to detach and stay dark...is that all I do for now? ...then what? I know I focus on myself and my kids...and then just wait for him to come to me? Should there be things I say to him, do around him to steer him toward reconciliation with me?


M: 34
WAH: 38 (in MLC)
Together: 11 years
Married since: November 2000
DS: 15
DS: 11
DS: 10
ILYBINILWY: Dec. 2009
Living separately since: April 2010