Yes, it is very painful! I agree, we don't have a choice. I just can't believe where we are today! I just thought since this r with ow happened so fast, he only emailed her & talked to her on the phone 2 months before he told me he wanted a d that it would not last. But, he is dealing with a sociopath, got sucked in (not all her fault, MLC) & now he is afraid of her. I'm not guessing here, his friend told me that he was spineless.
Trusting, how are you moving on, what do you do to get him out of your mind?