Hi Everyone! I'm finally back. My work/life balance has been restored! Here is the update....
Been at the new job almost 3 weeks- I LOVE it! I'm settled in and getting to know all the great people I work with. Its been the best move I could have made given my situation and I couldn't be happier
FINALLY I'm back to GAL... Which I very much missed. I'm taking a pilates class and back to regular meet up group events again. I can't wait until I can get back into my dance classes - I have to wait until the June round before that will happen. The pilates class has been good - something I never thought I would do! I'm back to running as well, and while I won't be ready for the original 5K I planned to do at the end of May, I will be finding another one to get training for here shortly... Its done wonders for my stress levels!!
The estate situation for my friend who passed away 1.5 yrs ago resolved yesterday!!! I can finally put that terrible thing behind me and get on with remembering her for all the wonderful times we shared and not thinking of all the terrible fighting going on since she died...
Still waiting for approval on my loan modification…. STUPID BANKS….. its been in “final approval” for 8 weeks…. This is holding up the D stuff because I am trying to placate H until I get him to sign the docs….
NO change to the D situation. I’ve told H that I’m not doing ANYTHING until the MOD is signed and I’m sticking to it. He finally stopped throwing temper tantrum and is just leaving me alone. I’m letting OUR bank line of credit cover my “half” the joint bills until I have a signed MOD… I’m putting min pmts on that in the meantime. That’s been working really well and I keeps him from getting what he really wants from me… more $!
I can’t wait until the D stuff is over and I can move on physically. I’ve met several really great guys with the online dating (plentyoffish.com) thing…. It’s been fun. I’ve been on some pretty bad dates too!!! I forgot how stressful dating can be… but I think I’m starting to really get past the whole… “My life is over” thing that comes with D. I’m starting to look forward to letting myself have that new “in love” feeling that comes with a new relationship!
OH! Spy… if you remember his wife left him a month after my H left… His D was final last Monday. That was the first time he’s contacted me since I stopped returning his calls in March…. I didn’t return that call either. Its too bad that things have to be this way… for both of us…
OK.. I think that’s it for now. I’ll be back now. I’m going to spend some time catching up on everyone….
Its great to be back - I’ve Missed you all! HUGS!
T
ME28,WAH30, M 5YRS, T 7YRS ,OW/ILYBNILY/SEP 9/09 Served with D papers 6/6/10 Current
