How should I handle MLC direct lying?

[amg2]

Thank you guys. I didn't mean my questions to sound very "H focused" as if I'm not worrying about me. I've been asked a few times here what I'm doing for myself. I just realized I haven't answered: going to IC, reading self help books, working out, spending time with friends/family, planning a trip to Vegas with a friend, getting ready to get back to Rosetta Stone Spanish, going to church. Now don't get me wrong I think about H and all our messedup BS. But I have completely stopped looking at phone recs and 99% stopped looking at email which is huge for me. HUGE. But I realize and accept that as long as he's not working on our M (which he hasn't much in 3.5 months) it doesn't matter what he IS doing (which I'm 99% sure includes some type of lying). I also accept that I have "inner work" of my own and am focusing on that. Unless he does the same, I'll never take him seriously.

Thank you all for all your help. This thread is very important to me! I hope I can help others some day the way you've helped me.