Lees..you need to let the anger get out and there is a lot more to come..I know that..but it does ease a little.I have told you the story bout my mum and dad.An A that lasted 45+ years into a marriage and mum is miserable..totally..drink is her only companion now and she has to look after dad who had a lobectomny 06 and came out of in Jan after 5 months.He shouldnt be alive..had psuedonomas and some other streppacoccle infection as well as chrronic heart failure,had an aeortic pump in for 3 weeks,(trying to give you a laugh with my medical terms!).Joking aside she believes he fights to live just to stay and make her miserable.
God has a way of ensuring people who have been less than good feel the pain of their actions.Unfortunatley we are not always aware or can be there to take part(would love to slowly torture OW).They will pay for their cruelty and infidelities..I promise.I have seen it(my dads ex wife hasnt).My dad lost a son he never knew because of his selfish behaviour.
Dont let your Scottish visit go to waste.If you want to catch up and have dinner,I would love to meet you and you can meet my girls too.
You are not alone you have many people rooting for you no matter what happens..take care and dont let them destroy you..((hugs))


ME 44
H 45
D 14
D 20
M 22 YEARS
TOGETHER 28YEARS
Bomb Drop 14th July 09
Seperated-living with OW 10mths(14/07/09)
MLC 3years

Silence wasn't golden in this marriage; it was deadly," Dr. Robin L. Smith