It may surprise you to find that I have given this serious thought...
I have already applied for two jobs in Key West. Both offer relocation expenses, so that would cover the move.
How am I doing so far?
This doesn't mean I've stopped crying, or hurting, or am even close. However, I think I can heal just as well on a Key West Beach as I can in the land of taxes and snow.
Actually not surprised - I thought you might be "there" but didn't want to presume. So, my answer is: You are doing amazing now, and you are going to do even better in the future!
Of course this is still tough, and you're going to have some rough days to get through - but don't kick yourself (or him, even) over what's in the past and how long it took to get to where you are now. Looking over your shoulder won't help you - focus your time, emotions, and energy on building a better future instead.
Thread #10 22 year M, MLC, Piecing since 1/07 Goal: Live with confidence & enthusiasm!
So, my answer is: You are doing amazing now, and you are going to do even better in the future!