FM thanks for the 2x4 - I forget the abusive behavior and blame myself as I have been a Queen B**ch myself so many times. I am also terrible at making a written account of the verbal abuse I guess I need to make a commitment to myself to try to gather diary entries and record stuff from memory - a big task as not that much is written down.

HOwever, this week with my new friendly attitude H has returned the attitude in kind

MC also stopped him from saying things "that would hurt" me in the name of "honesty."

OK, next coaching session I'm going to talk a lot more seriously with the coach with this situation.

THank you.

And cross your fingers, the preschool I demoed at this morning sounds like they want to sign me up to teach music classes in the fall laugh


Me: 42
Him: 43

Two divorcees in a relationship