Hello, you don't know me, but I was looking through the Piecing section to get some inspiration and I landed on your thread. I read your before/after and I was surprised to see how much your H's before behavior is like my H's current behavior. (Sadly, I think my H is having an affair.) Anyway, I was hoping you would have a minute to give some more detail on how you got from the before to the after stage. I know that you DB'ed in general, but what helped move you from limbo to after? I think my DBing has stalled the D, but my H is starting to feel frustrated w/ the limbo and will "give up" again if I can't get the R to move forward and improve a little. I SO VERY MUCH want to be piecing. Any advice is appreciated.
Thank you and congratulations on your successes so far!
