Make sure you have real proof, of course. Accusing without facts that are for sure would be the guarantee to cause major backlash against you.
I have proof on two occasions that they were somewhere outside of school together. I walked in on them at a bar when this all started. I recently found out of another at her sister's b'day party. She told me I wasn't invited and her brother told me he was there. Her brothers and sisters ripped her a new one. Of course, she swore they were only friends. The brothers don't believe her and haven't supported her. Her sisters, not so sure.
I have suspicions of other times and, as I mentioned, I have talked to one of the teachers at school and she shares my concerns. Also, another employee at school has called me sharing her concerns. There are no pictures, motel receipts or anything concrete that would stand up in a court of law. I have decided I think I have enough to go to the board and the one teacher says she will back me up. Before I do that, I am going to tell him personally to stay away from my wife. Like you said:
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I'm not saying 'go after her'. I am saying 'go after him'. She may not love you again, but if he's around, she won't anyhow. Now if you are done with her and don't want her, then who cares? Move on with life. If you want a chance for your marriage, as a teacher, I am offended that the lead-teacher in a school board would go after his employee.
It offends me that my wife would get caught up in this. Even now, I can't really say I understand. I don't.
