re finances, yes. I don't know how to go about getting or writing up such a contract. I guess he would know since he's quite good with financials. I need to talk with him about this. I am scared to raise it.
actually i have really complicated the financials ...as I am trying to get my o/seas citizenship (with WHs support...well, I'm not sure about that anymore after this week!) we can't legally declare we are separating...because I can only get the citizenship through marriage...which means i will not be entitled to single parents benefits until this comes through. It's important I have the citizenship so I can come and go between the two countries as I please (and given half my friends, family and culture are there I am not prepared to give it up). Our daughter will automatically have hers. And I was going to get mine anyway once we can back here -- it was always the plan.
these are the kinds of big issues i want to discuss with WH.
