I will keep all that in mind. it's one of those situations in which you give him an inch and he'll take a mile. I saw my insurance info and told him I'd be open to negotiating come November. and it's a good thing I did, because otherwise I wouldn't have known that D14 is not covered. and I feel certain he was just going to see how far he could get, throwing in CS and tuition. if I push back at all, he'll give in. and when I pointed out that he recently said he was fine with CS as is, and that a 50/50 tuition split was inequitable, he just said, "ok." that's as far as it will go for him, I'm certain.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012