No longer "stuck808". Now my name is Bond. "MrBond

[MrBond]

I've mentioned C before and she just thanks me for the information. She really doesn't want to do anything right now it seems.

After re-reading my post, I should clarify that I didn't really say that I was "disappointed in her". I think the point was that she should call to see how the kids are doing rather than distancing herself. The whole issue is that since her decision to leave, she's been distancing herself away from not just me, but the kids as well. Then when she gets into her "moods" she starts accusing me of keeping the children from her, etc. So it's those times that I "remind" her that I'm not keeping the kids from her. She is the one that is choosing to stay away from them. There's the difference that she doesn't seem to get.

I'm following the advice for those with spouses in MLC where the LBS is the moral rock.

Anywho, I'm trying my best to make it so she can open up more and feel "safe". And I'm trying to not be judgmental of her actions. I've already done as much changing as I can without any input from her, so the ball as to the R is in her court.

I've always built her up and I don't know if that was a problem before. I had done it so much that sometimes I feel like she took it for granted. I know that's what her boss, the OM, was doing but it's different when the boss is pumping you up as opposed to the H.

Any one else with any other suggestions?