Well....you have to do all the DB stuff. Get a life, have a positive attitude and then decide if you can handle contact or not. Some people go with no contact and that helps them. It really helped me ! No relationship talk. Don't be needy.
Just hope that your H wakes up and misses you but don't wait for it. You have to go on living and do that best you can. It's a hard journey and we all know how you feel. Come to the boards for support.
Me/W: 46/36 D7.6/S6 T/M: 7.5/6.5 Bomb 12/05/07 D final: 03/03/09