I've been reading a great deal of posts on other mirror work being done and think I need to look deeper within to do mine.

J3B posted on another thread about getting more detailed with it and it is something that I really need to work on...

I am afraid to rock the current calm feelings I'm experiencing right now... I'm afraid that the detachment I feel will disappear once I crank open the can of worms that is my childhood (a lot of which I don't remember.. probably for good reason)...

I know the psychological textbook stuff on how my childhood has affected me and my R with H, but I'm afraid to personalize it to the level I get the feeling I need to...

Sort of like pulling a loose thread on a sweater.. you keep pulling the whole thing unravels..

I'm afraid of unravelling again to the point I was when I found this site...

My kids and mom are relying on me not to go there again.. And I don't want to either..

So how do you unravel without losing the sweater?

All suggestions and thoughts welcome..

~ This Diamond now SHINES!! ;-p ~

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