Friends and family don't know what to say. My experience has also been that some "friends" just want the dirt, how you are comes secondary if that.
I am coming up on my 2nd un-anniversary next week. Just going to stay busy. I still remember my wedding. No reason to act like it never happened. But my marriage or ending of it can't define me as a person. I am coming into so much more now. I am doing things my ex never would. I am doing these things with my kids, friends or on my own.
It is ok to mourn. I mourned after he moved out, throughout the D and even maybe a year or so after. Recently I have started going out/dating. I just don't want to see you so caught up in the mourning period that you forget to move out of it.
hugs, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
