AJ - thank you for your thoughts on this...it's good for me to hear your perspective - What make is hard for me is the back and forth. Each time I seem to have couple of months to work on detachment and then H pulls me back in with another false R. And them I'm starting all over again. I guess I have to come to a point when I say enough is enough. I have been with him for 36 years...all of my adult life. That probably makes it more difficult...there is definitely some co-dependency that I have to work on.
As you said I will know when it's time....
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
