Well , the kids would most likely have to stay with her anyway. I can only hold onto the house( rental ) that we've been in until the end of June or early July at the latest. I've been laid off for over a year and had to file bankruptcy just to keep a roof over our heads this long. According to my wife , one of the conditions placed on letting her have it at a price she ca afford is that it was ONLY for her and the kids, I was NOT allowed to move there with them.

TBH I have NO clue where Im going to wind up after this. I guess a 1 bedroom apt , which is NOT something I want the kids to see me in when they've had a huge house and yard to play in for years now, but Im going through job retraining and a 1 bedroom is all I can afford.