BTW - does he feel forgiven for the addiction, or does he see you as someone attacking/condescending his efforts?
I don't know. I've been telling him that I'm so proud of him and I think he can put anything he puts his mind to since he went upstate in March. But I still think he's holding on to 2009 when I was hurting and just so angry and attacking him.
M:27 H: 33 M:10/07 T:9 yrs H moves away for drug recovery: 3/2010 ILYBINILWY & wants D:5/02/10 Confirmed OW:5/21 Told MIL:5/25(only concerned about H's recovery) Told FIL:5/28(will speak to him)