Ask him if he wants you to stay for him, to rebuild your marriage, or if he doesn't. An addiction separation isn't the typical one, is it?
Or, ask yourself that. What do you want more...him or the transfer? Unless he's coming with you, what's the chances that you'll recover living in different states? Could you delay the transfer?
Right now I'm three hours away from him. THe ALbany transfer would make me only 20 minutes away from him. I put in for the transfer a month ago when I was going to tell him that I'll move anywhere for us to get through this together..As of now, I can't cancel the transfer... I never expected this bomb to fall on me.
M:27 H: 33 M:10/07 T:9 yrs H moves away for drug recovery: 3/2010 ILYBINILWY & wants D:5/02/10 Confirmed OW:5/21 Told MIL:5/25(only concerned about H's recovery) Told FIL:5/28(will speak to him)
