I can agree with you CTH, but I think it's more for Awest then for H. If H comes to his senses from it, then great, but I think she needs to do this for herself.
Awest - you need to write that email to get all the emotions and hurt out so they don't eat you inside, and then when you're done, you can decide if just writing it is enough or if you want to actually send it to H. That being said, yes, don't be too harsh, but don't be too available either, like CTH is saying (ie "also let him know that I want to be with him, if HE CHOOSES") Just be careful about giving him that power b/c it's easy to abuse. Show him you want him thru your words, but be cautious about appearing as a fallback. I think as you review and edit it though, what you what to say will all fall into place.
Interesting about the rings! I think as you discuss it with him, I would let HIM offer to fix it. I'm not sure what you meant exactly by "I will do it", but if he wants you to wear the ring and be his W still, he needs to make the effort. Right now, he's not choosing to be your H, so you really don't have any reason to wear it until he proves otherwise.
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
