It HURTS so bad, desperately need re assurance

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SOTR ~
You're going to make it. That's the first thing you need to know.

Has she moved out yet?

Is there any infidelity?

What you should do at this time is get yourself together. This IS happening. She is going to leave you. Stop the bleeding - don't ask her not to do this; don't beg her to stay; don't call her or text her or try to do any of the things maybe you have been doing that you thought would change her mind. Accept that she is making decisions and you must do the same. Clearly, your #1 priority is saving your M and family. The only things that will give her pause are your Actions - not your Words. Your Actions should communicate confidence, strength, a disposition of "W, I want you and want our family. But I will be ok with or without you."

And you will be ok.

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